Beach buddy/activity partner
Ok this is how it is. I am a 50 year old woman. I am looking for a single, that does not mean married, separated or involved man around my age. An above wage earner, I am not looking to make more than my companion. A disease and drug free man. A NON smoker, a very social drinker at best, and limited gambler.
I need you to look in the mirror and actually see who is looking back, not the man you were in your 20's. Be honest with yourself and your don't be a picture collector. I am very aware of who is looking back at myself and I am not the girl who I remember in my mind. But I am realistic.
I have been through life. I have stretch marks, I have wrinkles. I have lived my life and not looking for a man who is trying to reclaim his youth by thinking women half his age is who he is attracting. News flash, they are not.
I have answered ads from men who I do not find attractive AT ALL willing to try and give them a chance. I find they are not good wage earners, they are on disability, you know the ones the able bodied who think they hit the lottery by getting permanent disbility, they are on unemployment. Total turn offs with so much baggage but willing to see if anything clicks. But then when he gets a pic in return, he stops writing! You have GOT to be kidding!
I was a pretty girl in my youth and still turn some men's heads and other men's stomachs.
So for goodness sake men, if you are looking for companionship not just sex be a little more honest with yourself and your situation and see what you can actually attract.
Oh and please be able to differentiate your and you're, lose and loose, to and too...please have knowledge of current events and pop culture. Please be able to teach me something.
Hope you are having a good weekend...